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Tuesday, 13 December 2011

How to date a beautiful lady even if you are ugly

A lot of guys find it difficult to approach beautiful ladies for relationship. Some even see it as a very difficult task they can never execute successfully while some feel beautiful ladies are meant only for the handsome and rich guys.

What you need to know as a guy who wants to date a beautiful lady is that there are some techniques you need to follow to win the heart of any beautiful lady. They are analyzed below:

1. Be Self Confident – The first thing you need to do is to be self confident. Any time you want to approach a beautiful lady for a relationship, you need to do it with confidence.

From research, beautiful ladies fall easily for guys with self confidence. They want security and believe they are safe in the hands of a confident guy. Don't try to be another person in order to impress her, be you, be natural and calm. When a lady sees the confidence in your actions and approaches she will get along with you easily and this will open the door for a lasting relationship.

2. Always look neat – You need to look neat always. Ladies generally love good looking guys. As a guy who needs a beautiful lady, you need to always look cool and clean. Beautiful ladies want to date men they can be proud of. Have a good hair cut if you have to, put on a very good pair of shoes and make sure the clothes you put on are kept clean and neatly ironed with good color combination. You don't need to put on "the most expensive clothing materials" but good looking ones. Don't be surprised that a beautiful lady could approach you for friendship if you are always neat. Anytime you have the opportunity to meet with a beautiful lady, let your appearance do the magic for you.

3. Don't beg her – One of the mistakes some guys make is to beg a beautiful lady for friendship most especially when she turns down your offer for friendship. Some guys will even go on their knees. You don't need to do this to have a beautiful lady for friendship or relationship. All you have to do is to continue to see her and press home your demand. Some beautiful ladies will not accept the offer for a relationship instantly even if you are "the most handsome and richest man on earth." They will say no even if they admire you and will patiently wait for you to come back.

Let me share my own experience with you. I approached a beautiful lady for a relationship and she turned down my offer. I tried again and she turned it down again. I "allowed her to be" for some time then I tried again. She gave in the third time and confessed she wept and regretted turning down my offer the first and second time because she had a very strong affection for me.

In conclusion, the key to dating a beautiful lady is to be self confident, neat and mature in your approach. Don't give up easily even if you have to try ten times. I wish you best of luck.

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Thursday, 8 December 2011

Signs You Are in Love With a Man - 4 Signs That Let You Know That You Really Love Him

There is a new man in your life and you know that you get a "buzzing" feeling when you are around him. It's one of the best feelings in the world and you find that you are definitely intrigued by him a lot. You know that when it's time for the two of you to be together, you just can't seem to shake that smile off of your face. The thing is, how do you really know when you love a man? Are there some signs that will show you that you really are "there" and that he is the guy you love?

Here are 4 signs that show you are in love with a guy:

1) You only think of him in positive terms.

Try as hard as you might, you just cannot seem to find anything negative about him at all. It's almost as if he is perfect and you just cannot get enough of that perfection. While you probably know deep down that no man is perfect, when you are really falling for a guy, it certainly can seem that way. If you only think of him in positive terms, then there is a good chance that you are falling for him.

2) You talk about him non stop with your friends.

This is one of the more classic signs that you are starting to fall in love with a guy. When you are with your friends, no matter what subject comes up, it seems like he is the only one that you can talk about. While it may start to drive your friends a little bit crazy, this is a classic sign that you are really enamored by a guy.

3) You tease him all of the time, just for the fun of it.

Teasing is one of the most basic, yet universal signs that you are attracted to someone, and if this is something that you cannot seem to stop doing... you may be attracted to him on a deeper level. Of course, you can tease someone and not feel that way, but when you keep doing it for the fun of it, it may mean something more.

4) You are waiting to hear him say those three words to you.

This is when you really know that you are "there." When you dream about him saying those three words to you, when you can almost imagine his lips forming the words, I love you, then you probably need no more signs, it is pretty obvious.

Wednesday, 7 December 2011

How to Get a Woman to Fall in Love With You - Too Much Effort Equals Little Reward

When guys go about trying to make a woman fall in love with them, quite often, they end up experiencing something strange. Instead of getting more reward (her affection) for their efforts, it usually goes the other way around. Meaning, the more effort that they put into trying to win over a woman, the more likely it is that she will start to pull away from them or see them as being more of a friend. This is a concept that seems to baffle most guys, because it seems so counter intuitive to the way that you would think it should be.

Too Much Effort Equals Little Reward?

This is a pretty standard scenario for how a guy will proceed to try and make a woman fall in love with them. They first start off very heavy on the compliments, trying to win her over with flattery. As soon as that starts to work a little bit, they pull out all the stops. They might start spending money on her without even thinking twice about it. They might go to great lengths to do things that they think will totally impress her. And the more they do these things, the more she starts to seem distant.

The problem with this is, it starts to look more like a transaction than it does a natural course or path that leads to love. Meaning, the more effort, money and energy the guy spends... the more he expects to get back in return. That might be the way that it works when you invest money, or when you go to work and trade your time for money. When it comes to love, it just does not work out that way.

What works much better to make a woman fall in love with you?

Instead of seeing things as a transaction and expecting that more effort will automatically mean more return, you need to look at it in a much more dynamic way. You have to remember that the woman you are trying to make fall in love with you is an individual and the best way to make someone like you or love you is not to buy their affections it is to create a strong connection and a sense of rapport with her.

There is a reason why when a couple is really deeply in love, none of the material things really matter much, or why neither person keeps a scorecard of the other person's efforts. It's because they just LOVE the other person, no matter what they give and what they do. Keep that in mind the next time you get the impulse to spend lots of money on a woman or try and plan some grand action to make her fall in love with you. Work on building the rapport and the connection that she feels with you.

Monday, 28 November 2011

Online Matrimony – A Boon to Modern India

A typical Indian wedding is much like a Bollywood movie that is celebrated with lots of music, dance and pomp. But before the celebrations begin, most Indian parents go through the inevitable dilemma of finding the right match for their children. Modern India has been able to effectively leverage from the internet age to build themselves a segment on internet portals that help parents; and prospective brides and grooms to optimize the benefits of the internet and find themselves the perfect math on an online matrimony website.

Technological Advances and its Impact on Indian Marriages

The technological advances have made online matrimony an extremely surging segment in the dot com sector. More and more prospective brides and grooms are registering themselves on these portals to find themselves a perfect match.

After spending sufficient time on a number of such web portals, you will realize that there are thousands of options for you in terms of choice of website that you can register on depending on your liking and pre-requisites in terms of the type of life partner that you are looking for.
Finding the Right Portal for your Needs

The internet consists of online matrimony websites that are generic as well as specific to religion, cast, region, profession etc. This is a fairly large leap from the conventional modes of finding you a partner which typically involved word of mouth in social circles, newspaper ads, middle men such as bureaus and brokers, etc. This technological advancement has definitely benefited a large segment of the Indian market that is constantly in need of the vast array of services that are being offered.

Tapping the NRI Segment

Additionally, consider the large number of youth that are moving out of the country for better career prospects. These segments of Indians are able to effectively benefit from internet matrimonial portals by gaining access to databases of an array of marriageable people. These portals allow people to browse through databases of thousands of registrants and contact the one's that interests them. On the other hand, it allows registrants to create profiles that can represent themselves online and effectively communicate with other people what it is that they are in search of exactly.

Breaking Social Barriers

Not only does this open doors for people to interact on a safe and secure platform but allows them to informally judge whether or not the people they get in touch with match their requirements or not, without having to actually worry about the social repercussions.

It is evident that irrespective of your background in terms of family, religion and profession, you are bound to find yourself a bride or groom that suites all your and your family member's requirements, from these wonderful internet based matrimonial tools. The overall progress in the value system of Indian families with the evolution of society in general has made it possible for such platforms to offer a vast number of benefits that make the entire match making process less stressful and more efficient for Indian families and their children.

Monday, 21 November 2011

Dating Foreign Women: Cons

Her name is Svetlana, or Sveta and she is beautiful. She is in her early-forties, employed, divorced, has children that are grown, and is looking for a good man from the West. Perfect, right?

Maybe. She only speaks and reads Ukrainian. She may not know how to drive a car either. She's never lived far from where she lives now.

Most of us midlife men haven't seriously considered this option but I also know any number of men in their 40s on up who haven't been able to find a partner that suited them, some after 20 years of searching! The foreign wife is an option and involves a process that is more easily navigated in this age of the internet and global travel.

In my conversations with some of the folks in the industry, revenue has continued to grow even with difficult economic news. My contact stated that the primary demographic for this type of business is comprised of midlife men.

So, what are some of the reasons for not going after a foreign wife? The points listed here are not without their controversy, but let's look at some of the key reasons given as to why you should not pursue a foreign bride:

1. Bad Motives. This first point has to be the number one reason put forth for not getting involved with a foreign woman. In a nutshell, the reason boils down to some variation of ‘they want something more than you', or ‘you're a means to a more important end.' These women are interested in western men not because of a better relationship, but better economics or a better passport.

The first argument revolves around the belief that the woman is seeking someone with money in order to make her life easier – call her a gold digger of sorts. The scenario is best reflected in the case of an attractive young woman targeting a much older man.

In this scenario, the relationship is secondary to the economics. The extension of this argument is that she will divorce the man and attempt to take some of his assets during the divorce.
A second reason associated with this ‘bad motives' argument involves the pursuit by the woman of a better passport. Over time, the man not only may bring economic benefit, but also assures access to western residency or passport. This is freedom of a different kind – it's about options.

2. Language Difficulties. Language skills will vary considerably depending on where the woman is from. However, in most places there likely will be significant challenges to be overcome in this area. If a relationship is what one is seeking, then it will be frustrated for some time until she attains fluency. Even with time, there are numerous nuances and subtleties that may never be learned.

3. Culture and Background Differences. Culture, like language, helps form the world view of each of us. With very different backgrounds, we are truly quite different people one from another. These hard-to-specify differences can raise barriers to harmony and unity in the relationship unless one recognizes key cultural differences that have molded her views.

4. Distance Is a Challenge. Depending on where she is from, distance has introduced a number of challenges to the relationship. There is the challenge of getting to know her and her family because of the distance that separates you. There is the cost of getting to know her and her family. There is the cost and difficulty of actually getting her access to your country.

Assuming you succeed in getting her into your country, then the distance factor continues in such ways as having to support her ongoing need to communicate and visit her children and other family members. Then there are family emergencies and death of parents and other close relatives that must be accommodated.

5. Will Need Support. Think about it. She does not read or write your language. She can't drive a car. She can't get a job. She will likely go through culture ‘shock', a period of emotional and physical adjustment to a world that is quite different from her own. She will feel lonely and out of place. She will miss her friends and family. And you're the one she will look to to help her through this transition.

6. It Will Cost You. You will spend money to connect with her and to try to figure out if she is the one. You will likely fly to visit her in her country, likely more than once. While in her country you have room and board expenses, plus in-country transportation costs. You will likely have to put up the money to get her to your location. You will have to pay for language classes. You gained a dependent who is unable to earn income for some time.

7. Will Be Just Like Western Women in Time. Assuming you are looking at foreign women because they are not like western women, then you may be looking at a temporary situation. As the foreign woman becomes less ‘foreign', then she may become more like that which you didn't like – a strange irony.

Whichever the case, the internet has made it easier to learn about these women, engage them in meaningful dialog, and eventually meet them face-to-face. It may be an option for you. But be aware of what you're getting into.

All that glitters may not be gold! The gold that is to be found in these relationships will be mined day-by-day and you will work hard to access the precious mineral hidden in this relationship. You will likely work harder to extract the benefit.

But the hope is, of course, that you will indeed strike it rich in the end.

Saturday, 12 November 2011

Dating Foreign Women: A Difference of Perspective

My name is Olga. I live in Ukraine. I have served in the role of translator/interpreter for Western men seeking to meet Ukrainian or Russian women. In the process over the years, I have observed a number of things about these encounters, some good and some not so good. I would like to talk about some of these observations. Today, I'll talk about cultural norms.

Social norms, or the idea that the certain things should be done in a certain way in a society, play a very important role in our daily lives. Often they play a positive role as they provide clues as to what to expect in a given situation. Things as simple as smiling at each other and greeting each other when we meet someone expecting the same in return, would be an example of this.

Everyone in a society knows the rules and regulations of everyday life and we don't need to create these rules every day. They simplify life routines. This system of norms is often used by public figures to predict public reaction to certain actions or decisions.

With all their advantages, our social norms can hinder us when looking for love, searching for a life partner, especially one from abroad. Since childhood we were told that every woman and every man deserves happiness and love and we created an image in our minds as to the ideal partner based on these social definitions, even stereotypes. I don't only mean physical traits such as hair color, height and weight of the future partner, but more important things such as the number of positive traits the future partner should have. Things like humor, or integrity, or work ethic, might be some of these traits.
The main challenge in dating foreigners is in these different social constructions that are built on different cultural platforms. We often are told that all humans are the same fundamentally, where we seek things such as freedom, equal rights, respect, and such things like this. This is only a partially true. Even males and females of the same culture often seem to be creatures from different planets, imagine how much more so those from different cultures!

First of all, we often prefer not to remember that since the dawn of human history the development of cultures and norms were rooted in certain religious ideas. You can accept it or not, yet it's enough to say that the influence is extensive, ranging from art masterpieces inspired by religious views, to bloody wars fought on religious principles, to church regulated social and mental development over thousands of years. It is only in relatively recent history has religious ideas stopped playing such a central role, at least from my perspective.

The point is that religious ideas differ in different countries and what is a hundred short years of relatively less impact compared to thousands of years of profound impact on a people and nation!

Beyond religious and philosophical histories, there are genetic histories that help define the appearance and characteristics of a people, making them distinct in many ways.

I hope this rather long introduction will make us think about how very different we can really be from each other, even though we may look similar and maybe even converse in a similar language. I am convinced that when an American or a EU citizen starts looking for a wife in Russia or Ukraine, he first of all will want to find as much in common with his future wife as possible, but also understand in what ways she is different. Could people who have grown up on different planets be the same? Of course not.

Yet, it doesn't mean that couples from different countries cannot be happy together. Moreover, they often have better chances to create a happy family than those from the same country, due to those different yet complementary perspectives.

My hope in this introduction would be that Western men would open their eyes to see past their own preconceived notions about these women and value the unique aspects the Russian or Ukrainian wife will possess and what she can bring to your life. Until next time.

Thursday, 10 November 2011

Show someone you care, with light hearted Mini Love Hearts sweets

Being in a romantic relationship entails a lot of things especially showing someone you really care as often as possible. If you are in a relationship like this, you can show your special someone you care with light hearted Mini Love Heart sweets. They can be simple gifts, however, it is always the thought that counts, especially when remembering the person you love and care deeply about. Presents like this can be considered as a token of your affection and there need not be a special occasion for you to give a little gift.

Special events such as birthdays and Christmas require you to give more in terms of the value of the gift and it is always expected on these particular days. However, giving Mini Love Heart sweets need not be given just on special occasions but every time you remember your loved one. Sweets like chocolate are a great present; especially for the ladies. This adds to the joy that your loved one feels as it proves that you are attentive and interested in your relationship. You also provide a sense of nurturing that is necessary in maintaining a healthy relationship.

You can also show your deep love and affection by giving gifts that will last forever as Mini Love Heart sweets will not. The more valuable your presents are is an indication of how precious your partner is to you, this doesn't necessarily mean valuable in a monetary sense but also a sentimental value. So when purchasing gifts you will find that you will not worry about the cost because what is important is that you are able to show how much your loved one means to you.

Whatever kind of presents you give to your loved one, it will always be appreciated. Mini Love Heart sweets are a great idea, especially if you are about to go on a first date. Save the expensive presents for really special occasions when you are expected to give something more valuable like on anniversaries, birthdays, Christmas or Valentines' Day. In this way, you are able to sustain your love throughout your relationship. Remember that there does not have to be a special occasion to give these great sweets to your loved on, they may have had a bad day at work for example; you can surprise them with a little gift when they return home; this in turn will remind them that you are always thinking about them.